First of all, let me say I'm sorry about FoL getting taken down. It is a shame and I will miss it too. I always have.
However, the time for tears is not now. You can join this site and make it the new FoL.
Thing is, our rules still apply, so any dirty things you want to do can be done a few ways. Instant messaging, email, or PMing on this site. Just don't make it public on here. We have a reputation to keep.
Whether you join or not, I encourage you to enjoy your stay!